Wise advice from my favorite doctor:
“Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened.”
So much about the quality of life is really how we chose to look at it. It’s where and what we chose to focus our attention on. The quote above, from Theodor Geisel, better known as Dr. Seuss, perfectly illustrates that point.
Think of anything good that has ever happened in your life. A special relationship, a great vacation, the best school year ever, an incredible concert, your business taking off. Anything. The laws of the universe dictate, unfortunately, that all things will eventually come to an end. At some point, something is gone. A void will be created. When things that matter no longer exist, we are conditioned to focus on the loss and sadness that accompany it. It’s a very natural reaction, one that I’ve quite often experienced myself.
WHAT IF… With our understanding of the temporary nature of all things, what if we could use that wisdom to change our response to life when what was no longer is?
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“Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.”
— Abraham Lincoln
Your level of happiness is predetermined. The good news is that you are the one who gets to predetermine it. Happiness can mean many different things to many different people, but the one thing about happiness is that it is a choice.
It’s the decision to see opportunity in times of change. It’s the decision to be grateful for what you already have. It’s the decision to see the beauty that already exists within you. It’s the decision to celebrate the wonderfully unique collection of talents, gifts, and abilities that only you possess.
Material things can sometimes make you feel good for a short while, but they will seldom ever make you truly happy. True happiness comes by simply making the choice to be happy and living accordingly.
It’s your choice.
Has anyone ever made your day?
Do you remember how it made you feel?
I had a great experience recently. It made my day. I received a message from someone in response to a comment I made on her blog post. She had eloquently written a piece that resonated with me at a very deep level. Her words prompted me share my honest appreciation for what she had written. Later, she sent me a warm reply which included these words: “you made my day”.
I was stunned. I made someone’s day? Me? How did that happen?
I don’t know if I’ve ever made anyone’s day before. If I did, no one ever told me that I did. But the funny thing about being told that you made someone’s day is that, in turn, it makes your day as well. I can still feel the physiological changes that instantly radiated within me. Four little words, a simple expression of thanks and gratitude, made me a better person that day.
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Funny, you don’t look like a light house.
But that’s exactly what you are.
For centuries, mariners have relied upon light houses to guide them through times of poor visibility, helping them avoid the jagged edges of rocky shorelines that can splinter even the strongest of ships. They serve as navigational landmarks, sending their powerful beacon of light miles into dark and stormy nights, guiding the lost and the wary home to safe harbors.
Light houses serve to guide those navigating the seas. What kind of light houses do we turn to to navigate our life?
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“You don’t need to make headlines to make a difference.”
— Truett Cathy, founder of Chick-Fil-A
You’ll never make headlines because you volunteered to coach your daughter’s soccer team. You’ll never make headlines because you checked in on a neighbor who hasn’t been feeling well. You’ll never make headlines because you decided to spend a couple hours a week mentoring a troubled high school student.
But you will make a difference.
We all have the ability to make a difference each day in the lives of all those we come in contact with. It could be as simple as sharing a warm smile or offering words of encouragement. Don’t underestimate the positive and uplifting impact you can make in the life of another human being.
What will you do today to make a difference?
“Every human being’s essential nature is perfect and faultless, but after years of immersion in the world we easily forget our roots and take on a counterfeit nature.”
Crashing waves, over time, can reshape even the hardest stone. The crashing waves of life can also reshape our perceptions of who we think we are. But unlike a stone, we can restore ourselves to our original “essential nature” of our own perfection…of our own greatness.
It’s one simple decision away.
And you get to decide.
“It’s not what you look at that matters, it’s what you see.”
— Henry David Thoreau
How do you see the world? How do you see you? Do you see the beauty or do you only see the scars?
The choice is up to you.
Choose to see the beauty, the abundance, the magnificence, the greatness.
Especially when you’re looking at yourself!
I’m going to start acting more like a baby.
No, it’s not about strained peas. It’s about rediscovering something I have lost.
There is an absolutely magical time in a child’s life. It happens between the walking stage and talking stage, when they’re more mobile but have yet to become fully conversational. Before they learn the words “mine” and “no”. Babies at this stage possess such a joyful nature, a blissful innocence, so beautifully oblivious.
Here are five “baby-isms” that I have observed from my vantage point as a Dad:
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“Overcome the notion that you must be regular. It robs you of the chance to be extraordinary.”
— Uta Hagen
Are you giving yourself permission to simply be ordinary? To simply settle for “good enough” when greatness lies within? Raise your own expectations of yourself and fulfill your capacity for greatness!
“Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn, or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace, and gratitude.”
— Denis Waitley
Happiness is nothing more than a choice we make. Decide to embrace a life of love, grace, and gratitude. What else do you really need?